| Once, when asked about her life, former First | | | | remaining single than marrying a man who views |
| Lady Barbara Bush said, "I married well."Is it | | | | marriage and family in this light. Keep searching |
| wrong to want to marry well? Ladies, it's all about | | | | until you find the man who truly understands the |
| survival - and it's all about what you will be able to | | | | meaning of marriage and family.These men are |
| do for your children. Marry well, and you will never | | | | out there!!Where can you find a man who wants |
| have to fear the basic survival issues, such as | | | | a traditional family life, with whom you can raise |
| illness and unemployment - threats that single | | | | beautiful children who have the best of both |
| women (especially single mothers) have to face | | | | parents while growing up (instead of spending |
| every day.Mother always said, "You can just as | | | | most of their time in school and daycare with |
| easily love a rich man as a poor man." Mother | | | | thrown-together frozen meals and an exhausted |
| was right.But what makes a man rich? Richness | | | | mom and dad)?The best place to find a man like |
| comes in many forms. Another word for riches is | | | | this is in a church or synagogue.And the best |
| "abundance." Life can be abundant in many ways. | | | | place to find churches with the most eligible men |
| A relationship can be abundant in love, in trust, in | | | | is in a larger city. However, you don't have to |
| affection, in fun, and in respect. Marrying your | | | | move. You can meet men in reputable Christian |
| best friend is a sure way to an abundant | | | | or Jewish online dating services.Have you seen the |
| emotional life.What is it about wealth and | | | | women who work full-time at demanding jobs |
| abundance that make these things so appealing to | | | | while at the same time raising babies, toddlers, or |
| so many of us? Take the time to think about this | | | | school-aged children?These women are stretched |
| before you proceed on your journey to find a | | | | to the max. They spend from morning till night |
| wealthy mate.Abundance means security.We have | | | | working both at their jobs and then at home |
| security when we no longer have to worry how | | | | taking care of their families.If you should be so |
| we will get the money for our basic needs and | | | | blessed as to find or to already have a man in |
| wants.We have security when our life is not | | | | your life who genuinely wants you to have the |
| dependent upon having and keeping a job - | | | | freedom of choice to stay home and take care |
| especially not a job we dread going to every | | | | of your family, you must never take him for |
| day.We have security when there is more than | | | | granted.If you are fortunate enough to marry a |
| enough money to take care of us, now and in the | | | | man who encourages you to stay home after |
| future.We have security when we know that our | | | | your children are born, you must do your part to |
| children will not have to live in impoverished | | | | make it worthwhile for him! How can you do |
| neighborhoods and be exposed to bad influences.It | | | | that? There are four important ways:No yelling - |
| is not wrong to want to have money. It is not | | | | no nagging - ever. On the contrary - build up your |
| wrong to want to marry someone who handles | | | | husband in every way you can.Stay attractive |
| his or her money prudently. Nor is it unusual, | | | | and stay in shape. The best way to do that is to |
| whether you are rich or not, to want to marry | | | | keep exercising.Keep your home neat, |
| someone who is financially secure. No one wants | | | | uncluttered, and beautiful. It doesn't have to be |
| to get romantically involved with someone with | | | | fancy to be beautiful. Less is more.Never, and I |
| chronic problems with money - gambling, debt, | | | | mean never, get over your head in debt. If you |
| overspending, risktaking. These things can ruin a | | | | need extra cash, find ways to make money. The |
| marriage or relationship faster than | | | | old saying is true: where there is a will, there is a |
| anything.However, there are hidden riches in | | | | way!A woman can make her own fortune with or |
| marrying many men whom you might otherwise | | | | without a man in her life. Women are doing it |
| overlook. If you marry a man who gives you the | | | | every day. You don't need a man, rich or not, to |
| freedom of choice as to whether you work or | | | | complete your life. But if you decide it's time to |
| not, you have in essence just become a | | | | fall in love, be sure to make a wise decision in the |
| millionaire, even if your husband earns $30,000 per | | | | area of money, and marry someone who is |
| year!"Do the math": if you marry at age 30, you | | | | responsible with his earnings, and who is generous. |
| may be married for 40 or more years. | | | | (The most unsexy man in the world is the |
| 40 years x $30,000 per year = $1,200,000 - | | | | cheapskate.) You don't need to deal with |
| money that is being earned for you while you are | | | | someone else's debt collectors calling your home |
| busy raising a family and nurturing your life | | | | and a ruined credit report as a result of your |
| together. A husband who doesn't insist that you | | | | wedding vows. You don't need to be the only one |
| work automatically makes you a millionaire!! You | | | | who pays the bills while your man plays computer |
| don't have to be "rich" - to be rich!!But what is | | | | games, entertains buddies, and drinks beer all |
| happening today? Young women report all the | | | | day.Smart, responsible attitudes about money will |
| time that guys are bringing this subject up on the | | | | result in long-term wealth and security at any |
| first date! Before the cappuccino is cold, these | | | | income level. Marriage can be difficult under even |
| men are telling women that any wife of theirs | | | | the best of circumstances. Marry a man who |
| should expect to help bring home the bacon, even | | | | adds to your life, rather than takes away from it, |
| after they have children!What is a guy like this | | | | and then make him glad he married you. Then |
| really telling you?He is saying loud and clear that to | | | | you have indeed married rich!Sarah Tanner is a |
| him, marriage is like a business. If he takes on a | | | | writer about relationships and charm. Visit her |
| partner, he expects to earn twice as much.He is | | | | website, and sign up there for her unique emails |
| saying that the quality of life for his children is | | | | about charm and relationships. You will receive |
| secondary to making sure there is extra money | | | | free ebooks on relationships and |
| in his bank account.He is saying that he wants to | | | | self-improvement with each email! |
| keep buying his "toys" more than he wants a | | | | You are welcome to reprint this article if you |
| wonderful, cozy life with his beloved wife and | | | | include this resource box with all links unchanged. |
| children!Run, do not walk!You are far better off | | | | |